Married Life So Far
It's been months since our wedding and I still feel kinda weird calling him my husband haha. I am really happy though, strangely a lot happier than before even though things are pretty much the same. Initially I didn't feel a difference at all when friends asked me how I was feeling now that I'm married, but as time went by I realised our relationship was in fact a lot better than before. We still go through occasional fights and stuff, but I guess we're both a lot more forgiving now :)
I asked D recently whether he felt any different after getting married, and he told me it was more fun?! LOL. We've been enjoying each other's company at home more as compared to maybe last year? It's definitely not the passionate and intense kind of love we had when we first started going out, now it feels more like a very comfortable kind of love where we silently care a lot more about each other. Maybe we were much younger then and a lot more selfish in the past; we used to fight till death over petty little disagreements. I guess it's really important in a relationship to find common ground and at the same time learn to accept that your spouse is created differently from you.
Thanksgiving just passed and looking back on my life I'm really thankful to have met and married D. Hopefully our relationship will continue to grow stronger in time and not end up badly!
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Congratulation to you both.... Well, to be able to love and to be loved with someone in life is such a wonderful thing!! “The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest.” - -Unknown
ReplyDelete“You don’t marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as a result of being married to you.”
-Richard Needham
“Keep the fire lit in your marriage and your life will be filled with warmth.”
-Fawn Weaver
Julia
Congrats to both of you... May the happiness that you have discovered stay with you always!
ReplyDeletePeople who look to marriage to make them happy make a fundamental mistake. It is your own happiness that you bring into your marriage that makes it so deliciously wonderful.
While the world does their best to mold you into a cookie cutter version of everyone else, a great spouse is there to encourage you to simply be your best self: kind, loving, authentic, and perfectly imperfect.
The secret for my marriage is my wife and I believing in each other and encouraging each other that: “Every woman deserves a man who loves and respects her. And every man deserves a woman who appreciates his efforts.”
Keep loving each other,
Andrew
P.S. “Marriage: Love is the reason. Lifelong friendship is the gift. Kindness is the cause. Til’ death do us part is the length.” -Fawn Weaver
Hi these are for you two:
ReplyDeleteHappy Marriage is: “We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.”— Henny Youngman
As for his secret to staying married: ‘My wife tells me that if I ever decide to leave, she is coming with me.'” — Jon BonJovi
“What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are, but how you deal with incompatibility.” — Leo Tolstoy
“Happy marriages begin when we marry the ones we love, and they blossom when we love the ones we marry.” — Tom Mullen
“A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
— Mignon McLoughlin
“Many marriages would be better if the husband and the wife clearly understood that they are on the same side.” — Zig Ziglar
My wife told me the other day that I don't take her to expensive places any more, so I took her to the gas station. The most important four words for our successful marriage is 'I'll do the dishes.'
And If you want your wife to listen to you, then talk to another woman; she will be all ears. -Sigmund Freud
Me and my wife lived happily for twenty years.... then we met!
Nice talking to you
Matt